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Cheating Spouse Signs: Building The Wall
Last Updated on Wednesday, 26 August 2009 15:01 Written by Daryl Campbell Monday, 06 July 2009 13:27
Two people that
have been in a relationship for sometime can read each other pretty
well. You know when to get closer and when to give your significant
other plenty of space. There are moments where it feels like you can
read each other's mind. Like the time you attended a social function.
Something happened and while the two of you were on the opposite sides
of the room, you immediately made eye contact and started having a
wordless conversation. When you got home and compared notes, you
realized you were on the same wavelength. You both have got it like
that.
But at this point in time you feel like your radar is broken. It's not
that you do not still feel that strong connection to your spouse but
you don't seem to be getting the same signals from them like you used
to. Understandably it has got you stumped. It's almost like when you
were not looking; your significant other built a wall between the two
of you. The question is why? The answer maybe they are having an
affair.
Besides some of the obvious clues of marriage infidelity such as
strange phone calls and equally strange charges on your credit card
statements, there is also the not so obvious like the growing distance
between you and your significant other.
It's not that they don't continue with the daily household
responsibilities or that they have stopped being intimate with you. But
now you detect thru their verbal and body language that interaction
between the two of you is getting more strained.
This happens quite frequently in an extramarital affair. While you
spouse may be doing everything possible to maintain normalcy, the third
party is starting to exert more emotional influence. Yes humans are
capable of multitasking but being in a marriage and carrying on an
affair is a tough job that somewhere along the way usually breaks down
completely.
You have tried to find out what the problem is with your spouse. They
deny there is a problem. You hope more than anything that they are just
going thru a phase (by themselves) where they just need to work some
things out. But if you sense that the distance between the two of you
is becoming more real than make it your business to find out exactly
what is going on behind that wall.
About the author:
Article written by Daryl Campbell. What is the number one tool no cheating spouse can do without? Get the answer at The Relationship Tip.
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Is your spouse a cheater?
Last Updated on Monday, 06 July 2009 13:44 Written by Denver Moore, PI Friday, 15 May 2009 15:11
Private Investigators publication
Thanks to Private Investigators publication for permission to reprint the following: The following is a guide to help you determine if your mate is cheating on you. After reading this list you may find there is some area of concern. Do not confront the cheater. This will only cause them to clean up their act and make it more difficult for you to catch them. You may not have enough proof to make your case. Seek professional investigative help. · At the beginning of an affair, the mate that is cheating is more attentive to his spouse– due to guilt that the cheater may be feeling at the time. · After the affair has been going on for a while, the person cheating seems to find fault with the person he/she may be living with to try to justify the affair in their mind. · Cheating spouses may lose attention in the activities in the home. They don't show interest in the livelihood of you or the children that live in the home. Nor do they have any desires to do any fix-ups to the home (i.e., lawn care, house repairs, etc.) · Intuition (gut feeling) that something is not right usually is a sign you may have a cheating problem–so "when in doubt, check them out." · Cheaters may have a change in sex life (i.e., more sex, less sex) as well as unexplained sexual requests. · The cheater has a definite change in attitude towards everyone in the home, especially the mate (rationalizing, for example, if he/she didn't act the way she/he does, well, then maybe I wouldn't be doing the things I do). · Another sign is finances. "If someone wants to play, he or she has to pay," therefore keeping an eye on his/her spending (i.e., check stubs, bank account balances, credit card bills, etc.) would tell you whether he or she is spending more money than usual. · Grooming habits will change. Cheaters will be more attentive to their person (i.e., the way they dress, frequent bathing, physical fitness, grooming their hair, switching colognes, etc.). · Physical signs to look for to determine whether or not someone is having an affair are lipstick on the collar, odors of cologne/perfume on a shirt/blouse, or checking underwear for secretion stains. You can also check wallets and/or the glove compartments of the car to see if receipts, pieces of paper with phone numbers, addresses, condoms, etc. have been left. · You may want to monitor your spouse for two weeks. During this time, keep track of the mileage on their car. Monitor the time he leaves for work and the time he comes home. Keep a calendar and note the times, this should help you establish a pattern. If your mate claims to be working late, check paycheck stubs to verify this overtime. · Be tuned in to home telephone calls when your mate has a tendency to whisper or gives a quick answer and immediately hangs up–or when you answer the telephone and get an abrupt hang up. · Many cheaters use cell telephones to communicate with their lovers. Should your mate have a cell telephone, you may want to get a detailed billing of the calls made from that phone to determine whether a certain number has been called frequently. A good area to start looking is for the first number called immediately when your mate leaves for work and the same number called again right before they return home. · Female cheaters are more discreet in selecting a lover. This is most likely because of their concern of a sexually transmitted disease (STD). Most females are looking for a longer-lasting relationship rather than a "one night stand." In past years men were the aggressors, in society today, with the increase of women in the work force, women have become equally aggressive. · When a female is having an affair, she tends to have more of a "glow" about her.
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Last Updated on Saturday, 16 May 2009 15:08 Written by Denver Moore, PI Friday, 11 April 2008 08:13
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